Positive Discipline Parenting Blog

Making the Most of School Breaks with Your Nanny Kids

When I was a teacher, it felt like we were never on school break, but now that I’m a nanny, it seems like kids are always on school break!  Funny how that works.  While school breaks can be fun and refreshing, they also have a way of disrupting routines and leave us with long days […]

Empowering Encouragement: The Power of Trusting Your Teen’s Journey

Parenting a teen can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. As they navigate the ups and downs of adolescence, it’s easy to feel the urge to fix things, to rush them through the tough moments, and to offer solutions to their problems. But what if the best thing we can do for our teens isn’t to […]

Shifting from Worst Case Scenario to Trusting the Process With Our Teens

I say this a lot, but this season of parenting is messy. The terrain of adolescence is rough. It is the nature of the path, it is the nature of the season. Even when we are practicing our tools and setting up agreements and doing family meetings, it's still a rough season. I always get excited when I get to say that to people because I think there's a certain level of relief when you're reminded, "Hey, this isn’t necessarily you not being enough, this isn’t necessarily your kids having issues. This is the terrain. This is how adolescence feels." Granted, you might think, "Yeah, but this doesn’t look like what’s going on at my neighbor’s or my sister doesn’t seem to be having these issues with her teens." It’s all relative. It’s hard and every single thing that happens, including the challenges that show up with our teens, are an opportunity for us to… learn, to grow, to expand, and to get curious.

Why Teens Lie and What Parents Can Do About It

Parenting teens is a journey of growth—both for them and for us as parents. It’s often said that raising teenagers is like signing up for a personal growth workshop you didn’t realize you’d need, and it’s true. The challenges teens present push us to examine ourselves, our beliefs, and our responses. One of the trickiest and most triggering issues for parents is when their teens lie. But here’s the thing: lying, while frustrating, is not necessarily a reflection of a bad kid or poor parenting. It’s part of the messy terrain of adolescence.

Avoiding Baby Sleep Transitions

Are you finding yourself avoiding a sleep transition with your baby? Maybe you're feeling overwhelmed at the thought of starting, worried about how it might unfold, and how it might impact you and your family. If so, please know that you're not alone in these sentiments. I've been there, and navigated a similar situation with my own baby! Despite being well-versed in sleep coaching methodologies, I still found myself avoiding a transition, and that's because no matter who you are, transitions can be hard and stressful! 

Shielding Your Children: Navigating High-Conflict Co-Parenting

Parenting is full of surprises—some that make your heart swell, others that test your patience in ways you never imagined. Co-parenting with a high-conflict ex can amplify those challenges, turning everyday situations into hurdles that feel overwhelming. The tension, disagreements, and constant back-and-forth can drain you. Yet, through it all, one thing remains clear: your […]