Eps 534: Creating special time with our teenagers
Episode 534
In this episode, I address a common frustration among parents: feeling disconnected from teens who seem unwilling to engage. I guide listeners to reframe their approach, shifting from “Why won’t my teen connect?” to “What’s blocking our connection?” By owning our actions, reflecting on how we show up, and dismantling barriers, we open new possibilities for nurturing relationships. I suggest tools like vulnerability, authentic apologies, and building proximity to our teens’ lives. Letting go of hurt and resentment, while embracing personal growth, fosters patience and trust. Connection takes time, but showing up consistently with curiosity and compassion makes a difference.
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Takeaways from the show
- Reframe the issue: Shift from “my teen doesn’t want a relationship” to “what’s blocking our connection?”
- Take ownership: Reflect on your own behaviors and messages to your teen.
- Teens want connection: Believe in their deep desire for belonging and love.
- Start with vulnerability: Apologize and own your part in the relationship struggles.
- Seek understanding: Listen to your teen’s perspective without defensiveness.
- Focus on presence: Spend casual time near your teen to build proximity.
- Let go of timelines: Trust the process and celebrate small positive shifts.
- Embrace personal growth: Release resentment and hurt to create emotional openness.
- Practice compassion: Extend love to yourself and your teen as you navigate challenges.
- Commit to consistency: Show up daily with curiosity, patience, and trust.
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